How many stages do you actually have to go through for you to say you have really accepted something that happened to you? Something that involves pain, struggle, and confusion? Any emotion that you can think of that would correlate to something that affected you in a way that kills you… Because acceptance is never a singular thing, and probably that’s the reason why it’s so difficult to deal with.

Life doesn’t hand you out a manual on how to face hardship. It’s like throwing a baby out to sea to teach it how to swim.

There is no better teacher than experience, and because of this, all I’ve got are thoughts on to deal with life. I’ve got a lot of solutions that easily play in my head when something bad happens, but the difficulty lies in trying to be a person that doesn’t break in the process towards acceptance.

Acceptance also means humility and courage—humility to admit that you are in a bad place, and courage to go on and not give up.

Acceptance comes with anger, disappointment, fear, anxiety… That’s the reason why the path to acceptance takes some time… Well a lot of time…

Acceptance means differently to every person. To me it means getting a grip on this family set-up, finishing our thesis with integrity, realizing you have to grow up, taking on responsibilities… This can go on you know, how much time you got?

How many stages do you actually have to go through for you to say you have really accepted something that happened to you? Something that involves pain, struggle, and confusion? Any emotion that you can think of that would correlate to something that affected you in a way that kills you… Because acceptance is never a singular thing, it comes with many other, things… I know how stupid and ambiguous that sounds, but probably that’s the reason why it’s so difficult to deal with. And what I mean by stupid and ambiguous is that acceptance works when you lose, when you succumb, when you give-up. It’s stupid. Sometimes. But that’s the way it works.

(Source: aproblemlikemaria)

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Friend: Tatawag ako sa’yo pagkatapos ng tatlumpung minuto.
Me: Okay, sige. Bye.
Friend: Bye.
Pagkatapos ng tatlumpung minuto… Walang tawag.
Me: -_-
Lumipas pa ang dalawang oras… Wala pa ring tawag.
Me: t(-_-t)

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